I just read this article: View From Venus: How to be a Good Girlfriend
…and almost had a fit.
Here’s a newsflash: When a man asks a woman what’s wrong, and she says “nothing”… she’s not saying it because she wants you to figure it out for yourself. She doesn’t think it’s so obvious she shouldn’t have to tell you. Usually she says “nothing” because she’s either so mad she doesn’t know how to put it into words, or she is upset but hasn’t figured out the root of it herself yet.
Yeah- sorry dudes, but sometimes women even confuse themselves. See, we have these things called hormones that are surging through our body at any given time and sometimes they cause our emotions to fluctuate. Even if we are being difficult for the sake of being difficult- it’s not on purpose, it’s the hormones causing us to act crazy.
So- the next time your woman tells you “nothing” is wrong… let it go. Tell her you’re ready to listen if and when she wants to talk about it, and leave it at that. If it’s worth talking about when she figures it out, she’ll let you know. And while you’re waiting- why don’t you give yourself a big shot of estrogen and see how you like it.